REGISTER FOR PAST CLASSES WITH HMS MENTORS

DATING LIKE A QUEEN
with Deonesea La Fey

How to Be Smart, Savvy, and Successful in Finding Love

An 0nline workshop on everything you need to know about dating to find the love that you want.

What would it be like to date like YOU are the one in charge? What if dating was like shopping for, and finding, what you really want... instead of an anxiety-ridden attempt at finding love? Regardless of how long it's been since you were actively dating, it always a good time to begin again. And if you are a woman who's never dated and instead you've always just jumped right into relationship with the next guy you felt attracted to... My question to you is this... How's that been working out for you?

Dating is an important tool both to learn and grow ourselves into new ways of relating, and also to determine whether a man is a good fit for us. Dating is a modern day version of traditional courtship rituals that are foundational to creating successful relationships. And in this course we're going to go over all of that in such a way that you feel empowered in your dating life, so that ultimately you can come to be in the kind of relationship you want to be in.

This class will help you...

Learn how to tell the difference between healthy masculine men and the kind of men you want to avoid...

both online and in person.

Learn how to use online dating to your advantage (even if it's never gone well for you before).

Understand men's profiles in a way that you can sort out the great guys from the guys who will waste your time.

Discover ways to meet men in person and find out early on if he's a potential fit for you, or not.

Discover the ways that dating well help to create a beautiful foundation for a relationship to be built on.

Have dating be fun for YOU!!!

So what are you waiting for? It's time you get this dating thing in hand, so that you can find yourself in the relationship where you are cherished beyond your wildest dreams!

Dating Like a Queen includes:

120 minute recorded online workshop on everything you need to know about dating to find the love that you want.

COST: $55

*IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT PAYMENT: When you pay through the button below, you will receive confirmation to the email associated with your paypal account. If you need us to use a different email address, please contact us at support@hermysteryschool.com.

Dating Like a Queen

MYSTERIES OF THE CLITORIS,
HIDDEN AND REVEALED
with Julia Sumaya

This immersion is a prerequisite for the next class, The Song of The Clitoris, presented in the Summer of 2024.

Join me on a mystical journey as we create sacred space for veils of shame, fear, and emotional friction to lift and return to the Divine. Veils of light and veils of shadow can reside in our body, mind, heart, and spirit. When we truly see these veils and allow the tender, intimate Love of Divine Light to be present with us, we relax into healing.

Together, we will witness an inherited lineage of veils or barriers that have written their confining essence on our bodies, specifically the clitoris. We will step out of this lineage and relax into the Ocean of Divine Love. This teaching intertwines women’s reproductive health information, Sufi teachings and practices, and Taoist practices.

When we know ourselves, we know the Divine. Knowing ourselves includes knowing our beautiful body, mind, heart, and spirit and loving her. From a place of honoring the inner masculine and feminine, we will explore one aspect of Herstory of the female body, including anatomy and physiology, and invite Herstory to heal in the Ocean of Divine Love.

My passion is understanding the disparity between the negative messaging about the female body, the reality of her sacredness, and how to use Sufi and Taoist practices to relax into her sacred nature. Please join me on this journey.

This immersion includes:

100-minute webinar devoted to creating sacred space for veils of shame, fear, and emotional friction to lift and return to the Divine.

You can read more about Sumaya and her upcoming class, The Song of The Clitoris, in the tabs above.

COST: $55

JULIA SUMAYA

Julia Sumaya is a Sufi teacher and health educator devoted to women's health and wellness, centered on sacred self-care. Julia began her studies of Sufism and Sufi healing in 1998 and earned a Master of Divinity degree from the University of Sufism. She has offered Sufi healing and teachings for over two decades, fostering spiritual growth and transformation for her clients and students.

She is also a Healing Tao associate qigong instructor, inspired by Taoist practices that enhance female sexual health. Additionally, Julia earned a Master of Public Health degree in leadership from UNC-Chapel Hill. She has shared her expertise in the public school system, where she taught puberty and sexual health education, equipping her students with the fundamentals of health and reproductive health.

Click HERE for more information about Sumaya and for FREE access to one of her teachings.

THE SONG OF THE CLITORIS
with Julia Sumaya

The Song of The Clitoris will include:

Connecting you to the energy of your clitoris.
Awakening and enlivening her energy, her chi.
A practice to hear her song, unique to you. Her Song offers healing, vitality, and harmony.
A practice to veil her energy from the world.
Time for reflection and sharing, if you choose.

*PLEASE NOTE: Registration for Mysteries of the Clitoris does not include The Song of The Clitoris.

Registrations for The Song of The Clitoris will become available via the Schedule of Events page when we get closer to time.

Mysteries of the Clitoris

DEEP FEMININE SEXUALITY AND INTIMACY
SIX WEEK IMMERSION
with Deonesea La Fey

As we navigate a world in which sexuality has been understood almost entirely from a male perspective for eons of time, it is really important for us as women to come to an understanding of our sexuality, and the ways we share it intimately, through a feminine wisdom perspective. When we understand our bodies and our sexual energy and how they work, we empower ourselves to enjoy pleasure - sexual and otherwise - in new and more fulfilling ways. From body shame to past hurts to lack of education to the ever moving tides of female hormones, there’s a lot to come to understand about female sexuality.

This six week immersion is designed to offer education and exploration of what it is to turn to our sexuality from a feminine understanding, both for our own personal life experience and for sharing with another. As a group, we will delve into deep questions around sex, pleasure, female bodies, and what it is to be a sensual and sexually actualized woman.

The 6 Week SEXUALITY AND INTIMACY IMMERSION Flow of Content:

Week 1: What is “Feminine” Sexuality?

Understanding the differences between female sexuality and male sexuality.

Week 2: Turning Towards our Sexual Energy

Cultivating our relationship with our own individual sexual energy current,

and clearing anything blocking its flow.

Week 3: Loving Our Bodies… Just the Way They Are

Learning how to love, accept and enjoy our own unique bodies,

so that we can enjoy sex and intimacy more.

Week 4: Addressing Shame

By far, the greatest energy that has been wrapped around female bodies and sexuality throughout time,

is Shame. Here’s how we bring that shadow into the light.

Week 5: Releasing Past Pain

Turning towards the pain that’s been inflicted by others and ourselves (consciously or not), and dealing with the hurt that remains.

Week 6: Being a Great Lover

What it is to bring our deepest selves to sex, and thereby create true intimacy.

You can read more about Deonesea in the tab above.

DEONESEA LA FEY

Deonesea is a sensuality coach and movement facilitator who is deeply trained and experienced in sensuality and embodiment practices, ecstatic dance forms, and initiatory rites. Deonesea supports both women and men to release themselves from past experiences and conditioning that inhibits their eroticism, so that they can find their own personal pathways to ecstasy. Her work is based in the knowing that our sensuality and sexuality can be a powerful source of creativity, passion and joy when we allow ourselves to cultivate and embrace them. In addition to holding her private coaching practice, Deonesea leads women’s empowerment workshops and sensuality retreats at home and abroad.

Sexuality and Intimacy Immersion

SOULMATE LOVE BUNDLE
with Deonesea La Fey

Includes a Three Class Series and a Bundle of Classes for a Discounted Price!
You can purchase each class individually, or purchase the bundle that includes all three.

SOUL MATE LOVE

Finding a Love that Truly Meets You

STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM

Magnetizing the Love Your Heart Desires

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE
Know Your Sexuality as a Source of Power and Pleasure

Buttons to purchase are in the tabs above.

This bundle gives you access to everything Deonesea offers that will support you in becoming a woman who is cherished and adored. These offerings will guide you in your journey with soulmate love and a deeper relationship with self-love. From deep feminine wisdom teachings on finding the love that you want, to sexual cultivation practices, to a discounted bundle of all of it - Deonesea hopes you discover something that nourishes your inner feminine at this time.

SOULMATE LOVE BUNDLE
With Deonesea La Fey

Includes a Three Class Series and a Bundle of Classes for a Discounted Price!
You can purchase each class individually, or purchase the bundle that includes all three.

SOUL MATE LOVE

Finding a Love that Truly Meets You

Soul Mate love… that grand love that will fulfill all of our romantic fantasies, meet our deepest emotional needs, and change our lives for the better forevermore. This love that we have claimed so many times in our lives, fitting one man after another into that mold we’ve created for “The One”… and ultimately finding ourselves disappointed again and again.

Soulmates do exist, but in such a different way than the romantic fantasy version that has been sold to us. Soulmates come in many different forms and different types of relationships. Often, our most painful relationships are ones that we have with soulmates… mates who’ve come to help our souls to grow.

What we really mean when we say Soul Mate Love is a deep, abiding intimate love that meets us deeply. And that kind of love exists, too. Those kinds of relationships exist, too. What’s problematic for many of us is that we don’t have the kinds of skills and internal maturity to attract and create those relationships, largely because what we’ve been taught about love relationships with men is wrong. You can’t build lasting love on false premises.

This bundle of classes is a romantic re-education on how to choose the right kind of men to partner with and how to understand them as different than you are, thus having the right skill set to be able to create lasting love.

SOUL MATE LOVE INCLUDES:

40 minute recorded webinar on the Myths and Realities of the Soul Mate
30 minute recorded webinar on Choosing Character over Chemistry
40 minute recorded webinar on "Convincing" versus Seduction
50 minute recorded webinar on Fantasy versus Potential
50 minute recorded webinar on Understanding Men

That's four hours of deep feminine wisdom teachings on having better relationships with men, and finally having the love that you want!

STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM

Magnetizing the Love Your Heart Desires

There are so many kinds of ways in which we as women chase men… the ones we’re in relationships with, the ones we wish were in relationship with, and even the mythic “One.” This is the reverse dynamic of what’s needed for you to have the man in your life be adoring of you. But unless you’ve been taught how to sit back and relax into your feminine power and enjoy him pursuing you, then you are very likely chasing him in all kinds of ways both overt and subtle. And that sets up a dynamic in which you are adoring him rather than him adoring you, resulting in him being complacent and you being frustrated.

This class is based on the premise that what you really want from a man is for him to honor and adore and cherish you, and that for you to have that you are going to need to make an internal shift towards receiving a man in a way that empowers him to give you those things.

In a very real way, this is about turning what you are wanting into what you are getting.

This process is about reversing the polarity so that you put yourself into the feminine polarity rather than keeping yourself in the masculine polarity. When you sit in the deep residence of your authentic feminine, your nature requires his masculinity… so that the result is he is actively adoring you, instead of you actively adoring him. And then you are no longer entangled in power dynamics.

Stop Chasing Men, Start Receiving Them is a three class series that will move you into a depth of understanding of the most effective ways to understand and relate with men, so that you can start truly enjoying them.

CLASS ONE ~ Turn Your Yearning into Magnetism

In this class we’ll be discussing what you’re wanting from him – a past, current, or future guy – and why it is that you’re not getting that (hint: it’s because you’re trying to get it). We’ll discuss practices you can use to shift all of that yearning into an internal state of magnetism. These practices will unblock places in you, so that what you want from him can naturally flow from him to you.

CLASS TWO ~ Embrace the Magic of Neuroscience

This class is all about how he is different than you are at a very fundamental level… the brain. When you learn the way a man’s brain works, you place yourself in the category of being a rare gem among women…one who truly understands men. Men are hungry for a woman like that. The processes that go on in his mind around sex and love and relating are very different than what most women think they are. This information is dating and relationship gold.

CLASS THREE ~ Drop Your Hanky Like a Lady

In this last class of the series, we’ll be talking about flirting and the art of seduction. In many ways, these things became lost arts during the feminist revolution of the past fifty years…for all of the reasons that was necessary in those times. But for you to have the kind of cherishing that you want, you need these arts to be reclaimed as part of your femininity. Flirting and seduction are what create desire and anticipation, and desire and anticipation are what create amazing sex. A man wants that with a woman. You want that, too, right?

STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM INCLUDES:

80 minute recorded webinar on how to turn your yearning into an internal state of magnetism so that his attention naturally flows to you
80 minute recorded webinar on understanding how his brain and neurology are different than yours, and why this matters in dating, love and sex
70 minute recorded webinar on flirting and the feminine arts of seduction

That's four hours of deep feminine wisdom teachings on how to shift yourself from the masculine polarity of "chasing" to the feminine polarity of "receiving," and becoming the woman who magnetizes all that she yearns for!

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE
Know Your Sexuality as a Source of Power and Pleasure

The content curated for this bundle is content that addresses the need to, and the ways to, cultivate and maintain personal pleasure in sexuality and intimate relationships. Personal pleasure meaning simply, the experience of your own intact rightness of being in a female body and being fully expressed in the complex, emotionally charged and energetically nuanced terrain of sexual intimacies.

Included in this bundle are the seven foundational and advanced practices that will support you in cultivating and maintaining your connection with your own personal sexual current, the essence of who you are. These are in video format, guided by Deonesea La Fey, and meant to escort you into a deeper, more embodied experience of what is most truly you. You can listen to these as often as you wish - they are practices that offer potent practice in the moment, and also that deepen over time.

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE INCLUDES:

60 minutes of videos giving detailed instructions for sexual cultivation practices (these are internal practices given fully clothed)
BONUS: 40 minutes of video practices for clearing past lovers, and knowing your inner masculine and your inner guardian

COST: $88

SOUL MATE LOVE

Finding a Love that Truly Meets You

SOUL MATE LOVE INCLUDES:

40 minute recorded webinar on the Myths and Realities of the Soul Mate
30 minute recorded webinar on Choosing Character over Chemistry
40 minute recorded webinar on "Convincing" versus Seduction
50 minute recorded webinar on Fantasy versus Potential
50 minute recorded webinar on Understanding Men

That's four hours of deep feminine wisdom teachings on having better relationships with men, and finally having the love that you want!

COST: $55

STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM

Magnetizing the Love Your Heart Desires

In a very real way, this is about turning what you are wanting into what you are getting.

CLASS ONE ~ Turn Your Yearning into Magnetism

CLASS TWO ~ Embrace the Magic of Neuroscience

This class is all about how he is different than you are at a very fundamental level… the brain. When you learn the way a man’s brain works, you place yourself in the category of being a rare gem among women… one who truly understands men. Men are hungry for a woman like that. The processes that go on in his mind around sex and love and relating are very different than what most women think they are. This information is dating and relationship gold.

CLASS THREE ~ Drop Your Hanky Like a Lady

In this last class of the series, we’ll be talking about flirting and the art of seduction. In many ways, these things became lost arts during the feminist revolution of the past fifty years… for all of the reasons that was necessary in those times. But for you to have the kind of cherishing that you want, you need these arts to be reclaimed as part of your femininity. Flirting and seduction are what create desire and anticipation, and desire and anticipation are what create amazing sex. A man wants that with a woman. You want that, too, right?

STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM INCLUDES:

80 minute recorded webinar on how to turn your yearning into an internal state of magnetism so that his attention naturally flows to you
80 minute recorded webinar on understanding how his brain and neurology are different than yours, and why this matters in dating, love and sex
70 minute recorded webinar on flirting and the feminine arts of seduction

COST: $33

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE
Know Your Sexuality as a Source of Power and Pleasure

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE INCLUDES:

60 minutes of videos giving detailed instructions for sexual cultivation practices (these are internal practices given fully clothed)
BONUS: 40 minutes of video practices for clearing past lovers, and knowing your inner masculine and your inner guardian

COST: $22

PILGRIM
She Who Walks the Holy Road

THEME: A deeper consideration of the soul road, the call to the devotional life. Together we will remove the veils of punishment, martyrdom, conscription, and unnecessary suffering that are the often unconscious inheritance of dogmatic religious and cultural power structures. The pilgrim walks a long, often lonely road, but the God of her own understanding walks with her, and so do all of her ancestresses.
DISTORTION: Martyrdom, Isolation
GIFT: Intimacy with the Divine, Deep Peace, Fortitude

Soulmate Love Bundle

WOMAN AT MIDLIFE
with Deonesea La Fey and Jamila Suzanne

The transitions and challenges that women face at midlife with hormonal and psychological changes, is a topic rarely addressed in culture except for the way Hollywood makes women out to be crazy. While much is said about the "midlife crisis" for men, it is rarely acknowledged that women also go through a big change at this time in life, perimenopause to menopause. The result is that women often feel alone as they go through what seems like the loss of their youth and their beauty... and in many, many cases, their value. Not only is there scanty information about this tremendous change available, but what little is out there is steeped in resignation and lacking in feminine wisdom teaching.

Such a huge part of what happens to Woman in her midlife is that she falls prey to the cultural adoration of the Maiden's form. As she watches her body change, largely outside of her control (thank you, hormones), while being immersed in a world culture that worships youth and beauty, Woman finds herself having no true and natural context for dealing with the appearance of wrinkles and cellulite and the disappearance of her former muscle tone. Add to that hot flashes, unpredictable bleeds and moodiness, and she experiences herself as the "hot mess" that culture would label her.

This program is the solution to that dilemma.

This is a recorded 90 minute call with Deonesea La Fey and Jamila Suzanne, HMS Mentors, as a precursor to their nine month exploration of Woman at Midlife alongside the HMS curriculum. The focus of this workshop is on addressing the midlife changes from a place of deep feminine wisdom teachings that address the hormonal, emotional, physical, spiritual and psychological aspects of this huge initiation of womanhood.

Read more about Deonesea and Jamila in the tabs above.

COST: $55

DEONESEA LA FEY

Deonesea will bring her expertise in the realm of sexuality and intimacy to her part of the program...The Restoration of Beauty. Beauty comes from the inside out...we all know this. But to live it authentically is a different thing. The call here is to make medicine out of our feelings about our changing bodies...to acknowledge that we no longer are who we were, that we are in a body that has changed, and this new body is as loveable and beautiful as the one that was before. AND...Beauty…physical beauty…can be restored. Discover the secrets of loving your body again, and bring all the inner light and beauty that is the truth of who you are out to the surface to shine and radiate into our world that so desperately needs the beauty of the midlife woman.

JAMILA SUZANNE

Jamila Suzanne brings an invitation to explore a deeper connection to the initiatory path you are in the midst of. How do you move through your days positively and say "yes!" when you feel maxed out, hypersensitive and wobbly? Feel and understand how your personal mythology is being bridged between the archetypes of mother (regardless of whether you birthed children or not) to crone. Release what is no longer yours to hold and make space for the unique wisdom that runs through you. Develop healthy and creative coping mechanisms that you can easily turn to when you feel "off." Move into and through this maturation process finding the support, grace and resiliency necessary to be the shining light that you inherently are.

Woman at Midlife

REGISTER FOR PAST CLASSES WITH HMS MENTORS

DATING LIKE A QUEEN with Deonesea La Fey

How to Be Smart, Savvy, and Successful in Finding Love

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Dating Like a Queen includes:

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COST: $55

MYSTERIES OF THE CLITORIS, HIDDEN AND REVEALED with Julia Sumaya

This immersion includes:​

100-minute webinar devoted to creating sacred space for veils of shame, fear, and emotional friction to lift and return to the Divine.

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COST: $55

DEEP FEMININE SEXUALITY AND INTIMACY SIX WEEK IMMERSION with Deonesea La Fey

SOULMATE LOVE BUNDLE with Deonesea La Fey

Includes a Three Class Series and a Bundle of Classes for a Discounted Price! You can purchase each class individually, or purchase the bundle that includes all three.

SOUL MATE LOVE

Finding a Love that Truly Meets You

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STOP CHASING MEN, START RECEIVING THEM

Magnetizing the Love Your Heart Desires

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SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE Know Your Sexuality as a Source of Power and Pleasure

WOMAN AT MIDLIFE with Deonesea La Fey and Jamila Suzanne

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COST: $55

DATING LIKE A QUEEN
with Deonesea La Fey

MYSTERIES OF THE CLITORIS,
HIDDEN AND REVEALED
with Julia Sumaya

This immersion includes:

DEEP FEMININE SEXUALITY AND INTIMACY
SIX WEEK IMMERSION
with Deonesea La Fey

SOULMATE LOVE BUNDLE
with Deonesea La Fey

Includes a Three Class Series and a Bundle of Classes for a Discounted Price!
You can purchase each class individually, or purchase the bundle that includes all three.

SOVEREIGN SEXUALITY, CULTIVATING PLEASURE
Know Your Sexuality as a Source of Power and Pleasure

WOMAN AT MIDLIFE
with Deonesea La Fey and Jamila Suzanne