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Deonesea La Fey
Aphrodite's Ecstasy and Alchemy of Intimacy Mentor

A close-up photo of Deonesea La Fey

A limited number of private, one-on-one mentorships are available each year.  If you are wanting more personalized support through the nine months, you can choose the mentorship theme of Aphrodite's Ecstasy or Alchemy of Intimacy, or you can choose to have your own personalized mentorship without one of the themes. Click the buttons below to enroll or contact Deonesea to schedule an initial discovery session.

During the upcoming year of HER Mystery School, Deonesea is also offering a Couples Mentorship, a Six Week Sexuality and Intimacy Immersion and Woman at Midlife, a nine month group mentorship about perimenopause and menopause.

Aphrodite's Ecstasy
 9 Month Group Mentorship

Recover and luxuriate in the magnetism, pleasure, and radiance of your sensuality.  


Due to so many confusing external messages, many of us as women have experienced tremendous pain around our bodies and our sensuality. Our work together in this mentorship will be about unraveling those influences from your psyche and the places you hold them in your body, to drop you fully into your natural sensuousness as a source of immense pleasure and knowing…in Her Way, the Feminine Way.  


Following the journey of the teachings of the school, you will have the support to look within and address body image issues, sexual shame, any past sexual trauma, and feelings of disconnection from your sensuality. You will discover the Truth of what your sexuality really is meant to be…..

A powerfully magnetic force of nature and the seat of your true destiny.  


Turn towards your Shakti and light yourself up with her radiance, to unfurl into the luscious, embodied feminine woman that you have come here to be.


Homecoming: Bringing your energetic tendrils back to you


Communion: Finding the Wild Maiden


Paradise: Self-pleasuring practices


Descent: Getting truly naked with your sexuality


Dark Mother: Facing the shadow traits of woman’s sexuality


Alchemista: Holding the duality of pleasure and pain


Oracle: Holy eroticism


Heavenly Mother: The heart of sensuality


Priestess: Walking in embodied radiance


  • One 75 minute small group session per month (4-8 women)

  • Additional curriculum tailored to the topic of each month

Alchemy of Intimacy
 9 Month Group Mentorship

Cultivate empowerment and liberation from past and present entrapment or compromise of your essential self in intimate relationships.

Few, if any, of us received adequate modeling or learning around what healthy intimate relationships look and feel like. Most of us entered the world of romantic relationships with no clue as to how to do them well, and have found ourselves trapped in painful patterns and dysfunction with no idea of how to get out of them.  


When we’re in it, it’s so hard to see what we’re in…especially if we’ve never received needed information to know what we’re actually dealing with.  On top of that, oxytocin bonding for a woman is very real and can make it incredibly difficult to extract herself from being bonded with someone who’s wrong for her.  


However, with the right kind of support and guidance, it is entirely possible to alchemize those old patterns into intimacy gold.  


Our work together will help you look into these patterns and move on from pain into true empowerment.  This applies to both past and present relationships.  From that place, you can begin the journey towards the beauty of real intimacy.  




Homecoming: Distinguishing Self from Other


Communion: Exploring the places where Self and Other meet


Paradise: Discovering what true intimacy feels like


Descent: Taking apart the patterns


Dark Mother: Facing the parts of you that allow and participate in painful relationships


Alchemista: Transmuting the painful past into a pleasurable present


Oracle: Finding your voice


Heavenly Mother: Feeling how much you are loved


Priestess: Knowing your own worth


  • One 75 minute group session per month (4-8 women)

  • Additional curriculum tailored to the topic of each month

A photo of Deonesea La Fey with a Veil at the Palace of Fine Arts

About Deonesea

Deonesea is a sensuality coach and movement facilitator who is deeply trained and experienced in sensuality and embodiment practices, ecstatic dance forms, and initiatory rites. Deonesea supports both women and men to release themselves from past experiences and conditioning that inhibits their eroticism, so that they can find their own personal pathways to ecstasy.  Her work is based in the knowing that our sensuality and sexuality can be a powerful source of creativity, passion and joy when we allow ourselves to cultivate and embrace them.  In addition to holding her private coaching practice, Deonesea leads women’s empowerment workshops and sensuality retreats at home and abroad. 

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